Re: Daughtersofmoms withBREASTCANCER Completely Saddened

Please call your mom soon, tell her that you are
scared about what is going on as you are afraid of
losing her.
my mom was diagnosed with stage 3 bc as it had not
metasized. has gone thru 9 months of chemo, then the
masectmy in Feb 08, she now os going thru another 12
weeks of chemo and then radiation. Oh believe me my
mom and I argue A LOT especially about the house
cleaning, she has OCD. I just tell her it is clean and
to accept it, yes I do clean.
Just tell her that you are afraid, she may open up to
you. Don't worry about her clothes or hair. let her do
what is comfortable and accept.

Pam
--- R RH <rrhendrick@yahoo.com> wrote:

> Hi all,
>
> I have not posted about myself truly since I
> joined the group and tonight is just one of those
> nights that I feel as if I am being selfish. I am
> so sad that my mom is not my old mom. In essence, I
> miss her terribly and we only just started this
> fight.
>
> To refresh all, my mom was dx with BC on 1/22/08
> and we are at the halfway point with 8 cycles of
> chemo bi weekly...mom is Stage IIIC and told she is
> terminal...
>
> Some of the most real feelings hit me and they are
> really hard to shake. I am sure some of you can
> relate to a mom that would fuss at you for some of
> the little things, bicker with you over your outfit
> or hair, and or even listen to you rant about your
> problems...I miss it. I feel that my issues are
> nothing compared to the fight she is going through,
> but I miss the one person that I told everything
> too. I feel like I am balancing what I say as to
> not upset her more if my own little life quirks.
> Unfortunately I just realized just how close I was
> to her this week and it has weighed me down
> tremendously.
>
> I am sure this will pass as all does, but I need
> your posts to get me through this week...
>
> RRH
>
>
>
>
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Pamela

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