We are still constructing the family tree right now, which, I believe is helping a ton as well. I truly appreciate you and the other ladies getting me through and giving the suggestions to move forward.
RRH
lynn marek <lynn.marek@gmail.com> wrote:
Good Morning:
I concur with Pamela, be open and honest, it clears you from holding in
anything that you will regret later. As for me, I am a stage 4 with bone
mets and truly determined to leave a legacy through writing. If you can get
your mom to talk about writing and then record it on tape as well as in
writing, this will be something that the family will never forget. I've
been fighting with this for 5 years and it is chronic, so it will be with me
until my miracle!
If you can get your mom in a support group, it does wonders.
Just a few things that I do- to look outward, keep my faith strong and trust
I will grow old with my family...
Lynn
On Fri, May 9, 2008 at 12:09 PM, Pamela VanLaningham <
danishdonut02@yahoo.com> wrote:
> Please call your mom soon, tell her that you are
> scared about what is going on as you are afraid of
> losing her.
> my mom was diagnosed with stage 3 bc as it had not
> metasized. has gone thru 9 months of chemo, then the
> masectmy in Feb 08, she now os going thru another 12
> weeks of chemo and then radiation. Oh believe me my
> mom and I argue A LOT especially about the house
> cleaning, she has OCD. I just tell her it is clean and
> to accept it, yes I do clean.
> Just tell her that you are afraid, she may open up to
> you. Don't worry about her clothes or hair. let her do
> what is comfortable and accept.
>
> Pam
> --- R RH <rrhendrick@yahoo.com <rrhendrick%40yahoo.com>> wrote:
>
> > Hi all,
> >
> > I have not posted about myself truly since I
> > joined the group and tonight is just one of those
> > nights that I feel as if I am being selfish. I am
> > so sad that my mom is not my old mom. In essence, I
> > miss her terribly and we only just started this
> > fight.
> >
> > To refresh all, my mom was dx with BC on 1/22/08
> > and we are at the halfway point with 8 cycles of
> > chemo bi weekly...mom is Stage IIIC and told she is
> > terminal...
> >
> > Some of the most real feelings hit me and they are
> > really hard to shake. I am sure some of you can
> > relate to a mom that would fuss at you for some of
> > the little things, bicker with you over your outfit
> > or hair, and or even listen to you rant about your
> > problems...I miss it. I feel that my issues are
> > nothing compared to the fight she is going through,
> > but I miss the one person that I told everything
> > too. I feel like I am balancing what I say as to
> > not upset her more if my own little life quirks.
> > Unfortunately I just realized just how close I was
> > to her this week and it has weighed me down
> > tremendously.
> >
> > I am sure this will pass as all does, but I need
> > your posts to get me through this week...
> >
> > RRH
> >
> >
> >
> >
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>
> Pamela
>
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